Comments on: What is virginity worth today?

By: Saher

Saher — Sat, 28 Jan 2012 03:19:21 +0000

I agree, the events in Saudi that you are refering you is a lot more disturbing.

End of time….

By: serendipity

serendipity — Fri, 27 Jan 2012 20:00:25 +0000

“but do not equip them with the proper methods for pursuing marriage” this is the key to helping the ummah rather than just telling them to “wait till you find a good muslim husband”.
The Prophet SAW said “Tie your camel 1st and then have tawakkul in Allah” We are not helping each other tie the camel. We only judge them if the hormones are kicking badly and they unfortunately do zina. No one tries to introduce the majority of singles because of fear of “what of they marry and then get divorced they will blame me”

By: sarahs

sarahs — Fri, 27 Jan 2012 02:27:47 +0000

there are female scholars out there. seek and you shall find.

By: FDA

FDA — Tue, 23 Nov 2010 11:23:59 +0000

Salaam,
So funny, the comments from brothers and sisters from the Muslim Faith.Haha.
Anyway, the fact that the Internet is booming, this is inevitable, there are so many stupid, funny, intelligent people out there…it depends on HOW YOU see it..LOL. Take things easy. We rely on Him for understanding and not ourselves sweethearts!

By: UK Resident

UK Resident — Wed, 04 Mar 2009 11:13:30 +0000

i don’t think that we should disregard the sins that we commit, otherwise it may become a normality. we should not condemn people, because Allah guides who He wills, but we should condemn abusive, illicit and damaging behaviours that affect our communities, and at the same time try to find ways of teaching people a better way, and ask Allah for tawfeeq and protection.

fi amanillah

By: ...

... — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 23:21:44 +0000

To Mr Sohaib Webb. “Condemning folks is one thing, building folks, teaching and learning is another.” Indeed T’is true !!! I agree we should all be teaching and advising one another, disregarding the sins we commit, as well all do it. Daily.

looool at your 5 year old singing “smack that” . Shouldn’t be laughing as yeah i agree the song is filth..Sorry though couldn’t help but laugh.

By: d

Sat, 14 Feb 2009 15:36:44 +0000

asalaamu alaykum, what one normally finds when people are discussing an issue such as the one above, is that woman woman woman, comes up time and time again. i really think we should also be bothered that there are men out there who would take, for want of a better turm someones verginaty then just abandon her. it is i would say like the chicken and egg situation as they say. i mean, if no men were prepaired to pay for sexual “services”, then no women would be able to “sell” them.

By: mulismah

mulismah — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 15:24:53 +0000

salaam

ok I totally agree that this is an important topic but I do think the fact that the brothers and sisters brought up that particular situation in Saudia Arabis is extremely important. This is because as a Muslim we belielve this is wrong. I believe it is wrong. But does Islam say its really wrong? This situation has disturbed me ALOT. Because I have read that Islamically that the father can arrange the marriage WITHOUT CONSENT (yes many scholars dont want to say this) although i read in pro islamic site if the age is before puberty. Another thing it bothers me soooooo much is because men sometimes do Not make the right decision for their child while women do. MOthers maybe smarter at this so It doesnt make sense that if she does not approve it can still go through! All these Islamic rulings REALLY BOTHER ME.

plz explain!

By: UK Resident

UK Resident — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 10:24:44 +0000

As a woman, I’m very shocked that any female would put a price on her dignity, self-respect and worth. How will she feel afterwards

I pray that the Muslim Ummah is protected from such immorality. May Allah guide these people.

Alhamdulillah for the blessing of Islam, and for the rights and protection that Allah (swt) has given us women, to be valued and honoured.

Fi amanillah

By: Abdullah Hasan

Abdullah Hasan — Sat, 24 Jan 2009 18:23:23 +0000

‘ta’llamtu ash shar laysay li sharrihi walakin litawaqqihi…….’

As a poet said, I studied evil, not for the sake of it but to protect myself from it. For how many people fall prey to evil due to their ingonarance of it’

or something to that effect.

wslm