Rules of Greeting non-Muslims in Islam (Saying Salaam/Replying Salaam)


By Nurideen Lemu An-Nigeri

Preface

Muslims, just like the rest of mankind do not live in isolation. They live in a world of multi-religious and multicultural diversities. With globalization, the world is getting more and more exposed to new cultures, religions, and ideologies etc. If Muslims have to integrate into the so described global village, then good communication is a vital component. Just like it is in all civilizations, cultures and religions, greeting is the very social responsibility at the first point of contact. Consequently, how one greets another person can open the way for better interaction or halt further relationship. This becomes more important where the non-Muslim contemporaries vividly understand the meaning of the Muslim’s unique way of greeting and feel discriminated against, belittled or disrespected if they are denied the salutations of salaam (Peace). This grudge and rancor if left unattended could be detrimental to peaceful co-existence and subsequently threatening to the progress of Da’wah. Therefore, this paper attempts to x-ray the actual facts about the subject from the Qur’an and Sunnah, and to clarify which opinion may be stronger or more applicable to our contemporary context.

It is hoped that this paper will help Muslims get a truer picture on this matter, and lead to greater respect for the divergence of opinion among Muslim scholars.

INTRODUCTION

Greeting is a moral act, a way of acknowledging presence, showing respect and courtesy. It is recognized as a norm in all cultures and civilizations. It is the first social right at the point of contact and cuts across religious and cultural barriers. It was quite ordinary in history that even opposing armies will engage in some form of mutual acknowledgement before the start of combat.

Islam, as a comprehensive way of life also recognizes this norm as a right, and goes to the extent of specifying how it should be done: ‘Assalamu alaikum’ meaning ‘peace be upon you’ or more perfectly: ‘Assalamu alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa barakatuh’ meaning “Peace, Mercy and Blessings of Allah be upon you”. In this regard, Allah says in the Qur’an: “And when you are greeted with a greeting, greet (in return) with one which is better than it or (at least) return it (in like manner). Indeed, Allah is ever taking account of all things” The greeting Allah is referring to here is generally understood to be ‘Assalamu alaikum’. He also described salaam as “a greeting from Allah, blessed and good”. Likewise the Prophet of Islam (Peace be upon him) was once asked: ‘what aspect of Islam is among the best?” He replied “Giving food (to the needy) and saying salaam to whom you know and whom you know not”. In another instance, he enjoined his followers to spread the greetings of salaam because it increases the love between them. He also said: “It is not permissible for a person to desert his fellow brother for more than three days while they continue to meet and turn their backs to each other. And the best of them is the first to say Salaam”. He also ruled: ”Let the young say Salaam to the elder, and the passerby to the seated, and the smaller group to the larger group.”

Inevitably, Muslims live among relations, friends and well-wishers from other faiths. The salient question is: does this universal precious greeting of peace extend to them?

In discussing this topic, the rulings on issues having to do with initiating the saying of salaams will be treated separately as a section, and then followed by those related to replying or responding to salaam from non-Muslims.

SECTION A

INITIATING THE SAYING OF SALAAM TO NON-MUSLIMS

Muslim scholars in Islam have three major views concerning the saying of salaam to members of others faiths, such as Christians, Zoroastrians, Jews, Buddhists, Hindus, Animists. One group of scholars prohibits it, while a second group permits it. Yet a third group takes a midway position by saying when conditions call for it or make it necessary, Muslims may initiate the greeting of salaam.

It has been authentically reported from the Prophet (Peace be upon him) that he said:

“Do not initiate Salaam with them….” But it was said that this injunction was specifically when they were going to Banu Quraizah9. But the question is, is this a general rule applying to all non-Muslim citizens, or only to those who exhibits hostilities to Muslims as did the Banu Quraizah? This is a point of deliberation (among scholars).

Ι. PROHIBITION OF INITIATING THE SAYING OF SALAAM TO NON-MUSLIMS

A good number of Islamic scholars are of the view that it is prohibited to initiate the greeting of salaam to non-Muslims. They say salaam is meant to be exchanged among Muslims and that the verse of the Qur’an which spoke of greeting with salaam is referring to Muslim alone. This was the view of Ata’ bin Rabah They went further to say that salaam is to Muslims as shalom is to Jews. They backed their position with the Hadith reported by Abu Hurairah, where the messenger of Allah (Peace be upon him) said: “You must not initiate the (greetings of) salaam with Jews and Christians,”. They say, salaam is a greeting of honor and a non–Muslim (kafir) does not deserve to be honored. Ahmad Bin Hanbal commented on the above Hadith: “Going by this Hadith is better than any other contrary opinion”. Ibn Hajar is of similar opinion, while commenting on the above Hadith, he said: “The most credible of all these (views) is what is evident in the above Hadith, although it is specific to the People of the Book. Ibn Katheer also, while commenting on the verse on greeting (Qur’an 4:86) said: “But as to non-Muslim citizens (Alum Dimmit) one should not initiate to them the greetings of salaam” Abu Haneefah and Malik Bin Anas detested initiating salaam with non-Muslims.

Proponents of this opinion argue further that the salaam meant for greeting is among the peculiarities of this Ummah of Prophet Muhammad as reported by Anas bin Malik, who said that the Prophet (Peace and Blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Indeed, Allah has given my Ummah three things that were not given to any other Ummah before me: saying salaam, and it is the greeting of the people of Jannah (Paradise)…”

Imam An-Nawawi reconciled between the ahadith that enjoyed greeting and those that prohibit initiating salaams to non Muslims as follows: “The ahadith that enjoined spreading the greetings of salaam is a generalization (A’am), from which the people of the book were excluded”

This group go further to assert that the salaam that Prophet Ibrahim (Peace be upon him) said to his father in Qur’an 19:47 was a mere farewell and good will, and it was not meant as a greeting.

From among the contemporary scholars, Ibn Uthaimeen holds a similar opinion. He believed initiating greetings of any sort with non-Muslims is a sort of honor given to them which they don’t deserve. He categorically spelt out that it is prohibited (Haraam) to greet them with salaam. He further said: “Because it is a humiliation for a Muslim when he starts to honor a non-Muslim”. Shaykh Abdul-Azeez Bin Baaz while commenting on the Hadith earlier stated, said: “This indicates that we respond to them if they initiate it. It is initiating it that is prohibited” Scholars of the Shafii Madhhab uphold the prohibition of initiating salaam to a non-Muslim citizen. However, they permitted initiating with other local greetings only when the need arises, because it is an expression of love. They argued further that Allah the Most High has warned: “You will not find any people who believe in Allah and the Last Day making friendship with those who oppose Allah and His Messenger,.. However, some of the Shafi’i Madhhab scholars consider it to be merely detestable (Makruh).

II. PERMISIBILITY OF SAYING SALAAM TO NON-MUSLIMS

Another group of scholars consider it permissible to commence the saying of salaam to a non-Muslim. They say this view is in harmony with how Qur’an represents the Islamic greeting of peace as a universal greeting. They advance their argument on the basis of the following texts:

“O you who believe, enter not into houses other than yours without first announcing your presence and invoking peace (saying salaam) upon the folk thereof. That is better for you, that you may be heedful”

“And servants of (Allah) the Most Gracious are those who walk on the earth in humility, and when the ignorant address them, they say, Peace (Salaam)!”

“Consider his cry: ‘O my Lord! Surely they are a people who do not believe! So turn away from them and say ‘Salaam’ (Peace) for they shall soon come to know”.

Also, ”And when they hear ill speech, they turn away from it and say, ‘For us are our deeds and for you are your deeds, peace be upon you; we seek not the ignorant”

The Prophet (Peace be upon him) said: “Greet with Peace those whom you know and those whom you do not know” He also informed us that when Allah created Adam, He commanded him “Go to that assembly” and they were an assembly of seated angels – ” and listen to how they greet you. Indeed, it is your greeting and the greeting of your descendents”. He said: “Peace be upon you” they said: “Peace be upon you and Allah’s Mercy”

The Prophet (Peace be upon him) also said: “Spread the greeting of peace”

In response to the hadith quoted by the first group, they agree that it relates to the state of hostilities which erupted between the Jews and the Muslims at the time of campaign against Banu Quraizah. They supported this assertion by a Hadith where the Prophet (Peace be upon him) said: “We are going forth in the morning against a group of Jews, so do not initiate the greeting of ‘Peace’ with them”

More so, a good number of the companions hold the same opinion. Abdullahi bin Mas’ud once said salaam to a non-Muslim. When asked: “Are we not warned against initiating salaam with them?“ He replied: “It is a right of companionship”. He once wrote a letter to a non-Muslim and said therein, ‘Assalamu alaik’ – “Peace be upon you”. Abu ad-Darda’, Abdullahi bin Abbas, Fudalah bin Ubaid and Ibn Muhairiz were also of the same view. It was equally reported that, Abu Umamah Al-Bahily do used to say salaam to whoever he passed by, Muslim or non-Muslim, and used to say, “it is a greeting for the people of our religion, and an assurance of security to our non-Muslim citizens, and a Name among the Names of Allah we spread among ourselves”. Notable among the prominent pious predecessors of the second generation was Sufyan bin Uyaynah, who when asked whether a Muslim can salute a non-Muslim with salaam, replied in affirmation and quoted the saying of Allah “Allah does not forbid you in respect of those who do not fight you because of your religion and do not expel you from your homes – from being righteous and dealing justly towards them. Indeed, Allah loves those who act justly”

Imam Awzaiy said: “If you say salaam to them (the non-Muslims), then surely (some) pious people did the same, and if you don’t, indeed, (some) pious people did the same.” Umar Bin Abdul-Azeez said: “I feel no qualm in initiating salaam to them, because of the saying of Allah: ”So turn away from them and say ‘salaam’ – (Peace), for they shall soon come to know” Al-Sha’abi is also of the same understanding. He once said to a Jew “Peace and Allah’s Mercy be upon you” (Alaikas-Salam wa Rahmatullah), so it was said to him “You told a Jew Warahmatullah”? He replied back saying: “Isn’t he living in Allah’s Mercy?

Proponents of this view explained that the rationale behind the prohibition of initiating salaam was that some of the Jews used to greet the Prophet with ‘As-Saamu alaik’ meaning “Death be upon you”. However, if they change, and there is peaceful co-existence, nothing stops us of from initiating salaam. This view is equally supported by Imam Qurtubi.

III PERMISIBILITY ON CONDTION

The third category of scholars are those that see salaam to be permissible on necessities such as seeking help from them, companionship, a journey, or some other necessity, or if such non-Muslim are relations. This view tries to reconcile between the first two. They say that the Hadith of prohibition is applicable when conditions do not call for saying salaam. They support this assertion by a Hadith related by Usamah bin Zaid that the Prophet (peace be upon him) passed by a company of people which comprised Muslims, idol worshippers and Jews, and he greeted them with the salutation of peace (salaam). They say the only way to reconcile between the Hadith of prohibition and the above is permissibility but only when necessary. Notable among members of this group are: Ibrahim An-Nakhaiy, Alqamah and Al-Sha’by.

It is observable that the Prophet did not state any condition for His action in this hadith. Did He intend the greeting for only the Muslim s in the group, with the non Muslims as collateral beneficiaries? Or did He intend the greeting for all irrespective of their faith? In as much as the hadith exclude any condition, it is safe to assume that the Prophet’s greeting was directed to everyone in the group, Muslim or non Muslim.

SECTION B

RESPONDING TO SALAAM FROM NON-MUSLIMS

Nearly all the scholars have unanimously agreed that it is compulsory to reply salaams from a non-Muslim just as if he or she were a Muslim. This ruling is based on the verse of the Qur’an where Allah is says: “And when you are greeted with a greeting, greet (in return) with what is better or (at least) return it (in a like manner)…”

Sufyan At-Thawri reported from Al-Hasan Al-Basari: “Initiating the saying of salaam is voluntary, but replying to the greeting of salaam is compulsory”. Ibn Katheer said: “This statement of Al-Hasan Al-Basari is the position of all scholars unanimously.

From the Madh-hab point of view, Hanafis and Malikis consider responding to salaam from a non-Muslim to be permissible, while scholars from Shafii and Hanbali Madh-habs consider it to be compulsory. However, scholars differ on how the reply should be.

The first category believe that the response to their greeting of salaam should be ‘wa’alaikum (And upon you too) or Alaikum’ (let it be upon you) and no more. Their evidence is the popular Hadith of Anas Bin Malik related by Bukhari and Muslim; that the Messenger of Allah said: “When the people of the Book offer you salutations, you should say: the same to you” (wa’alaikum). In another tradition it is related that the companions said to the Prophet: “The People of the Book offer us salutations (by saying as-Salaamu-alaikum). How should we reciprocate?’’ There upon he said: say: ‘Wa’alaikum’ (and upon you too). In the text narrated by Abdullahi bin ‘Umar: Allah’s Messenger said: “When the Jews greet you, they usually say, ‘As-Saamu alaikum (Death be on you), so you should say (in reply to them), ‘wa’alaikum (And on you too).” In the same vein, Aisha narrated: The Jews used to greet the Prophet by saying, ‘As-Samu ‘Alaika (death be upon you), so I understood what they said, and I said to them, “As-Samu alaikum wal-la’na (Death and Allah’s curse be upon you)”. The Prophet said, “Be gentle and calm, O ‘Aisha, as Allah likes gentleness in all affairs” I said, “O Allah’s Prophet! Did you hear what they said?” He said, “Didn’t you hear me answering them back by saying, ‘Alaikum (the same be upon you).

Ibn Abbas commented on Qur’an 4:86 thus: “Greet (in return) with what is better” applies to a believer, but if it is a non-Muslim, reply with what the Messenger of Allah has instructed to be said to them “wa’alaikum” (And upon you too) Imam Al-Tabari while commenting on the same verse said “And already, the Sunnah has excluded non-Muslims from benefiting from the response that is better by the instruction to respond with “Wa’alaikum” Therefore, it is not befitting for anybody to transgress the bounds laid by the messenger of Allah (Peace be upon him) in that regard. They supported this assertion with a Hadith reported by Anas, where he said: “We were instructed not to say more than ‘wa’alaikum’ (And upon you) in response to the greeting of the People of the Book.

The second category of scholars in this regard believe that in replying the salaam of a non-Muslim, one can go as far as saying “Wa’alaikumus-Salaam” (And Peace be upon you) provided one is sure the person’s salutation is an actual greeting salaam. They say when Allah was instructing the reply to a greeting, it was a generalized instruction that came in passive form “And when you are greeted with a greeting, greet (in return) with one better than it or (at least) return it (in a like manner)”. He (Allah) did not say “And if you were greeted by a Muslim”

Ibn Mas’ud said: ‘Even if Pharaoh (Fir’aun) said good words to me, I would respond to him with similar (good words). Abdullah bin Abbas also said while explaining the verse on greeting (Q4:86) ”Whoever says salaam to you among the creatures of Allah reply him, even if he is a Zoroastrian (Majus). A group of scholars from the Shafii Madh’hab also hold this view”

Some of the members of the group believe one can say “Wa’alaikumus-Salam’ (Peace be upon you also) only, without warahmatullah (And Allah’s Mercy) while majority of them believe the response should be according to the greeting. This group went further to interpret the reply to a non-Muslim to mean supplication and good will.

Notable among proponents of this opinion include Shaikh AbdulAziz bin Baaz where he said:

“If a non-Muslim greets us, we respond in the same manner that he/she greets us with. So if one (of the non-Muslims) says: ‘As Salaamu ‘Alaikum’ clearly when greeting us, we respond by saying ‘Alaikum as Salaam’, if one says ‘Ahlan wa Sahlan’ we respond with ‘Ahlan wa Sahlan’, and if they say “good morning”, we respond by saying “good morning”. We greet them in the same way that they greet us acting on the order of Allah the Mighty and Majestic (Q4:86)

Shaikh Muhammad Bin Salih al-Uthaimeen also share similar view in the statement below:

“If a non-Muslim greets a Muslim by saying “al-saamu ‘alaykum” (Death be upon you), then we should respond by saying ‘wa ‘alaykum (and also upon you). The fact that the Prophet (Peace and Blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “wa alaykum” (And upon you also) indicates that if they were saying “as-salaamu ‘alaykum” (Peace be upon you), then peace will also be upon them, that is, whatever they say to us, we say to them. Hence some of the scholars said that if a Jew, Christian or other non-Muslim clearly says “al-Salaamu ‘alaykum”, it is permissible for us to say “Alaykum al-Salaam” (upon you peace be)

To wind up this segment of the discussion, let us cite the statement of Ibn Qayyim:

“If it is confirmed that the non-Muslim citizen (Dhimmi) said salaam ‘alaikum’ (clearly), the dictates of the principles of Jurisdiction and the rulings/evidence of the Shariah is in line with replying with ‘wa ‘alayka as-salaam’ (and upon you be peace), because this is more of just and kind. More so, Allah the Most High has said: “And when you are greeted with a greeting, greet (in return) with what is better or (at least) return it (in like manner)….” He thus encourages replying with what is better and has mandated justice. And this in no way contradicts any of the ahadith in this chapter, because, the instruction of replying with ‘wa ‘alaykum” (and upon you too) was in consequence of what the Jews deliberately did in their greeting. The Hadith of Aisha (May Allah be pleased with her) pointed to this, while the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, “Don’t you see me responding to them by saying ‘wa ‘alaykum’ (And upon you)? Then he instructed: “If the people of the book say salaam to you (in greetings), say to them ‘and upon you’. Although the entirety of the text is considered, the context and the factors underlying it are also important.… So, if the precursor ceased, and the People of the Book say: “Salaamun ‘alaykum wa Rahmatullah” (Peace and Mercy of Allah be upon you), justice in greeting demands that they should be replied in similar way. Perfection belongs to Allah”

CONCLUSION

This paper has attempted to show that the Hadiths specifically excluding the People of the Book from the salutations of Salaam have been understood by a group of scholars to be a generalized injunction. They therefore ruled that it is unlawful to initiate salutations of salaam with non-Muslims such as Jews, Christians, Pagans, and Zoroastrians and others.

Another group considers the related verses of the Qur’an, several Hadiths and the context surrounding the specific Hadith on prohibition, and viewed it to be permissible to initiate greetings of Salaam with a non-Muslim. This group understands the Hadith on prohibition to be specific to a particular instance and context. In accordance with the view of this group of scholars, therefore, it is only the presence of similar hostile condition that warrants the prohibition of initiating salaams with non Muslims.

It is worth mentioning that some Companions saw the salutations of Salaam to be a right of companionship. This implies that the context may also be important.

However, virtually all scholars seem to have no problem with responding to Salaam from non-Muslims in consideration of the instruction of Allah in Qur’an 4:86.They only differ on the format of the reply.

Greeting in whatever form is considered by Scholars of Principles of Jurisprudence (Usool al-Fiqh) to be among social transactions (Mu’amalat) regarding which the basic principle of Jurisprudence governing it is permissibility, except otherwise prohibited by Islamic Law (Sharia).

Sufyan At-Thawri was reported to have said “If you see a man doing something over which there is difference of opinion among scholars, and which you believe to be forbidden, you should not forbid him from doing it“

He also said: “If you say salaam (to the non-Muslims), then surely (some) pious people did the same, and if you don’t, indeed, (some) pious people did same.”

After affirming that Allah knows best concerning all affairs, it is only befitting to end this discussion with the beautiful greeting in question,

Assalaamu ‘Alaikum Warahmatullaahi Wabarakaatuh.

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  1. admin says:

    Asalamu alaykum,

    Barakallahu fik wa la fada fuka!

    SDW

  2. dawood says:

    Ah – finally someone posts something from ustadh Nuruddin Lemu! I had the pleasure of spending time with him a few times when he was visiting here and I was very impressed and humbled by his knowledge and demeanour.

    Keep up the good work br :)

    Wslm

  3. Asalamu alaykum

    Interesting paper.

    I once asked why we say Assalamu alaykum to a person in the plural and was told that we do so because of the angels that accompany the person.

    That being said, does saying salam to a non-Muslim in the singular imply that they are not accompanied by angels? Even they believe that Esau the brother of Yaqub had a guardian angel. If one is going to say salams to a non-Muslim it would seem that they should say it in the plural.

    One thing, amongst many, that turned me away from Orthodox Judaism, was the racist attitude they hold. They feel they are better than anything or anyone in creation. They view the non-Jews as pseudo-animals. Remember, for them not anyone can be a Jew. One is either born a Jew or converted under strict rules. Even then they view the convert as a person who was already a Jew and the conversion revealed what was hidden. They interpret the Tawrah saying “a ger s’mitgeier” or “a convert that converts” as meaning that the convert already was Jewish. Their proof is the double wording. Otherwise it would say “a non-Jew that converts” or “a Goy s’mitgeier”. They believe that the world was created for their benefit, and that all of creation is meant to serve them..

    I could be wrong, but I treat every creation of Allah with the same respect not because they are Muslim, or otherwise but because they are creations of Allah. There are two types of people in the world. There is the Muslim, and those not yet Muslim. No one is hopeless.

    On a side point, what should a Muslim man do when they pass a Muslim woman. In my previous life in O.J. one did not address a woman unless one had to. Is it appropriate to say salams to sister wearing hijab? I see sisters wearing hijab from time to time to and from work. I am happy to see that they are doing the right thing and am compelled to give salams to them, but I do not know if it is appropriate. I am not talking about starting a conversation with them, but merely giving salams to them and going on my way.

    • abedi pele says:

      “Even then they view the convert as a person who was already a Jew and the conversion revealed what was hidden. They interpret the Tawrah saying “a ger s’mitgeier” or “a convert that converts” as meaning that the convert already was Jewish.”

      How come converts to Islam are called ‘reverts’? Is it not a similar principle for us too then?

  4. Abu Majeed says:

    ASAK akh Shimon,
    Yes bro, it was authentically narrated that the Prophet (saws) did make salams to Muslim women. Some scholars according to the narrations said that they must be a group, others said if it is just one she should either be young or elderly. But all of this is not based upon texts as the Prophet is recorded to have made salam to Asma bint abi Bakr and there is no evidence that this is exclusive to the Prophet (saws). So the best opinion as stated by al-allamah Mustafa al-Adawi in his book Fiqh al-akhlaq that you may make salam to any Muslim sister who you don’t fear would open a door to an illicit realtionship. Although if you want to discuss da’wa help her with something or give directions it is OK as the general meaning of the verse in soorah at-tawba in 71.
    And Allah knows best

  5. Omar says:

    Salam,

    I stumbled on this article randomly, i am no scholar, but i’d just like to bring attention to this:

    [25:63]

    WaAAibadu alrrahmani allatheena yamshoona AAala al-ardi hawnan wa-itha khatabahumu aljahiloona qaloo salaman

    And the merciful’s worshippers/slaves (are) those who walk on the land/earth quietly/tranquilly , and if the lowly/ignorant conversed with them , they said: “Greeting/peace .”

    Yusuf Ali And the servants of (Allah) Most Gracious are those who walk on the earth in humility, and when the ignorant address them, they say, “Peace!”;

    Pickthal The (faithful) slaves of the Beneficent are they who walk upon the earth modestly, and when the foolish ones address them answer: Peace;

    Arberry The servants of the All-merciful are those who walk in the earth modestly and who, when the ignorant address them, say, ‘Peace';

    Shakir And the servants of the Beneficent Allah are they who walk on the earth in humbleness, and when the ignorant address them, they say: Peace.

    Sarwar (Among) the servants of the Beneficent God are those who walk gently on the earth and when addressed by the ignorant ones, their only response is, “Peace be with you.”

    Khalifa The worshipers of the Most Gracious are those who tread the earth gently, and when the ignorant speak to them, they only utter peace

    Hilali/Khan And the slaves of the Most Beneficent (Allah) are those who walk on the earth in humility and sedateness, and when the foolish address them (with bad words) they reply back with mild words of gentleness.

    H/K/Saheeh And the servants of the Most Merciful are those who walk upon the earth easily, and when the ignorant address them [harshly], they say [words of] peace,

    Malik True servants of the Compassionate (Allah) are those who walk on the earth in humility and when the ignorant people address them, they say: “Peace;”[63]

    QXP The true servants of the Beneficent are those who: Walk upon the earth humbly. And when the ignorant ones address them, they say, “Peace!” (3:138), (22:41), (31:17-18).

    Maulana Ali And the servants of the Beneficent are they who walk on the earth in humility, and when the ignorant address them, they say, Peace!

    Free Minds And the servants of the Almighty who walk on the Earth in humility and if the ignorant speak to them, they Say: “Peace.”

    Qaribullah The worshipers of the Merciful are those who walk humbly on the earth, and when the ignorant address them say: ‘Peace, ‘

    George Sale The servants of the Merciful are those who walk meekly on the earth, and, when the ignorant speak unto them, answer, peace:

    JM Rodwell And the servants of the God of Mercy are they who walk upon the Earth softly; and when the ignorant address them, they reply, “Peace!”

    Asad For, [true] servants of the Most Gracious are [only] they who walk gently on earth, and who, whenever the foolish address them, [Sc., “with the aim to ridicule them or to argue against their beliefs”.] reply with [words of] peace;

  6. dayana says:

    SubhanAllah! beautiful piece! Jazakallahu khair for sharing!! :D

  7. Curtis says:

    I am not Muslim, but I have many Muslim friends that I love, respect and admire. I have to say, as good as the article is (great writer), your [those that commented before me] comments are even better. Before I met some of my Muslim friends, I’d generally meet snide comments about Islam with indifference. However, after meeting them, any comment that belittles or insults this faith offends me a great deal. My brother took his Shahadah about a year and a half ago now, and the change in who he is, is nothing less than astounding. I just wanted to say thank you, not just to the writer, but to all of you that posted. You never know who your words will touch, and how those words will affect them. In my view, when you speak and exemplify the best in Islam… it can only be good. As a non-Muslim, I’m of little knowledge of the Sunnah and Din, but I honestly feel that writings, thoughts, and actions that align with the most positive things in the Qur’an will always bring more people to Islam (or at least to a strong respect for it) than the sword or a gun ever will.

    From Shimon Ibn Ibrahim: “There are two types of people in the world. There is the Muslim, and those not yet Muslim. No one is hopeless.”

    Those are words for any to hold dear to heart. I recognize that I am the second type of person, but for those that I have met in the faith, I can never look at a Muslim and see anything except a brother (or sister).

    Thanks a ton, I’m off to bed.
    Assalaamu ‘Alaikum Warahmatullaahi Wabarakaatuh

  8. arshadh says:

    this was truly interesting and i would like to greet kafirs so that they know and understand that islam is a religion of peace..

    • Ramir says:

      Thank you for this observation and for others who have the same.

      I am a non-Muslim and I have several Muslim friends. My sister is even married to a Muslim back home. We co-exist peacefully.

      My quandary is the ‘correctness’ of me (a non-Muslim, or “kafir” if you will) to initiate Islamic greetings of peace Assalamu alaikum to my Muslim friends.

      Thank you for the writer (Nurideen Lemu An-Nigeri) for having elucidated my mind about this matter, which to me, is very important as symbol of civility.

  9. Jamilah says:

    Asalamu Alaikum

    How are we to respond if a hindu says Namaste to us? I’ve been told by hindus that this means something like ‘I bow to the god in you’… in this case, saying ‘and to you’ would be akin to shirk? right?

    Jamilah

    • Riya says:

      Jamilah,

      I’m hindu and when a hindu says namaste to you, they’re basically just saying hi. Namaste actually just translates to “I bow to you” which means nothing except you respect the person you are greeting. The whole “I bow to the spirit/soul/God within you” business came about with the popularity of Yoga and spirituality. But of course its really what you mean by it when you say it. My best friend along with Muslims who reside in India have said it before and meant nothing more than a hello by it. I’m not Muslim but I’m sure that if you’re not worshipping other than Allah, associating partners with him, giving his characteristics to others beside him, or not believing in his characteristics than you’re not doing anything wrong or commiting shirk. Of course, if you still feel uncomfortable then just say hi back. I’m sure they won’t feel offended as long as you don’t just ignore them. I hope this helps :)

      • Farhan says:

        Riya,
        Are u sure Namaste(as a prototype) has no element of worship in it? I know namaste literary means just ‘I bow to you but some people give complex backgrounds like ‘The God in me bows down to the God in You’ etc. etc. how far this is correct? and secondly what does ‘Namaskar’ mean?

  10. Umm says:

    Assalaamu Alaikum,

    Jazakum Allahu khairan for this balanced and informative article.

  11. Ergash says:

    Jazakallah Khayer.

    Now i have many views with many backings.

    Asselamu Aleikom Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatu

  12. aji prabowo says:

    Jazakumullah khairan for sharing this useful information as we all moslems are living co-existence with other faith that for sure muamalat should be addressed properly by our ulema.

  13. Rishu says:

    AOk,
    Is it Fard to Saying ‘Asalam O Alekum wa rehmatullah wa barkatahu’ to bad muslim guy (charectors are not good and doing all rubish thing which Islam prohibited) and also should we pray behind him?
    ——————————————–
    I was listening a khutaba on ‘Salam’ by Seikh Mumtazul Haque of Milpitas, CA, almost 7 years back. I wanted to make sure that i undertand him correctly.
    He has given several examples to whom we have to say salam or not.
    As per Seikh,It is not fard to say salam to Muslim brother/elder who’s charectors are not good and doing all rubish thing which Islam prohibited. Also if by chance he lead the paryer in jamah (Since he is a senior guy and know how to pray), we should have to avoid him or leave the jamah.

    Please clarify my doubts. Since i was facing the same scenario, the guy i know him personaly, doing all rubish thing which Islam prohibits, but unfortunately lead one of the prayer in Mosque. I was litle bit confused, but prayed in Jamah. Then i realise and remeber the seikh saying…

    Should we pray behind him or not and also should we skip him to saying salam too.

    Please advice me.

    Jazak Allaho Khairon
    Rishuh

  14. Saleem Ali says:

    now a days…some muslim brothers…greet to each other “in different styles”…i.e…
    1. Assaam alaikum
    2. Assalaa Alaikum
    3. Salaa Alaikum
    4. Swaam Alaik

    since the real salaam way is Assalaam wa-alaikum wa rahmatulla………… but could give me the real meaning of above 4 kinds of incomplete salaams. please try to reply me on email. sameer3s@yahoo.com I WANT INFORM OTHERS TO GREET TRUE TYPE OF SALAAM… AS PER SUNNA AND WRONG MEANING OF MODERN SALAAMS……JAZAKALLAH KHAIR… from Saleem

  15. Hello says:

    I’m non-Muslim, but I have many Muslim friends, and I have lived with a Muslim family. I wonder, should I initiate a greeting? If so, what? And what should I respond with if I am greeted with ‘salaam’?
    In trying to be respectful if I refer to Muhammad should I say Peace Be Upon Him afterwards? I’m not Muslim but I don’t want to offend. Or is it better to refer to him as the Prophet? does this require PBUH afterwards too?
    Thank you.

    • Marya says:

      That’s beautiful that you would like to know how to best interact with Muslims! If someone says “salaam” you can respond with “wa alaykum assalam” which means “and on you be peace.” If you would like to say peace be upon him after the name of the Prophet Muhammad (s) that’s wonderful too. It’s all up to you. Calling him a prophet or wishing someone peace are wonderful gestures of support and community.

  16. Nahid says:

    I’ve come across Christians who read the Islamic writings i share and respond with kind words and enthusiasm. I love them so much because even many fellow Muslims don’t do this with me. I’ve blessed them as well overwhelmed by their kind behaviour. They really read it and reflect on them and never show disrespect, it makes me so happy!!

  17. Jasim Adam says:

    As Salaamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatu

    Sayyidi Nuru, InshaAllah this comment will reach you.

    From our TTC days many years ago in NZ and Australia, i have always loved the way you have looked at a situation/topic and done your best to be fair to the difference of opinions by our great scholars.

    I find this to be no exception. Jazak Allah Khair. This is exactly what i was looking for with this particular topic.

    May Allah increase you and your family and may we meet each other again, if not sooner, then in Jannah Firdows InshaAllah.

    Was Salaam
    Jasim Adam
    New Zealand

  18. osman says:

    Assalamu alaykum,
    Jazakallahu khairan for the very beneficial article. I was wondering if you could please also explain the official positions of each maddhab on the issue of initiating salaam to non-Muslims? Jazakumullahu khairan.

  19. Susheel says:

    I am a true Christian and I am proud of it. few days back one of my Muslim friends told me that greeting of WA allekum sallam is prohibited to a non Muslim. I am so much hurt for that! and now after reading this article I feel good. And I am sorry for those who don’t have knowledge and have less knowledge about their religion.
    Assalamu alaykum.

    • Salima says:

      Susheel, dont be offended, I am a muslima girl, but I don’t wear hijab, so I never get WA to my Salam, lol, coz in Middle East people think only muslims are human :(

  20. Saumya says:

    I’m a Hindu (S. Indian) and have lived mostly in the States. However, I have been told, since I was very young, that it is appropriate and correct to respect members of other faiths with their own greetings. So my brother and I were taught to offer salaam to any Muslim. I’m proud that I grew up in such a family and have enjoyed many close friendships based on such a simple (but very sincere) greeting. As to namaste/namaskar, they are the same thing and differ due to language and geographical predominance of use (north vs south). The term does come with a suggestion of acknowledging the Divine within the other person but is not restricted to any particular faith. In my part of India, it is used as a greeting by Hindus, Christians and Muslims to say hello. :)

    I really appreciate the thoughtful commentary. It’s very well-written and easy for me to understand. I’m really glad to see it esp. since I’m interacting a lot with Somali Muslims, who have sometimes not responded to my salaam. I was worried that I was offending them. Thanks for clearing this up!

  21. Quirat says:

    Salam,

    I stumbled on this article randomly, i am no scholar, but i’d just like to bring attention to this:

    [25:63]

    WaAAibadu alrrahmani allatheena yamshoona AAala al-ardi hawnan wa-itha khatabahumu aljahiloona qaloo salaman

    And the merciful’s worshippers/slaves (are) those who walk on the land/earth quietly/tranquilly , and if the lowly/ignorant conversed with them , they said: “Greeting/peace .”

    Yusuf Ali And the servants of (Allah) Most Gracious are those who walk on the earth in humility, and when the ignorant address them, they say, “Peace!”;

    Pickthal The (faithful) slaves of the Beneficent are they who walk upon the earth modestly, and when the foolish ones address them answer: Peace;

    Arberry The servants of the All-merciful are those who walk in the earth modestly and who, when the ignorant address them, say, ‘Peace’;

    Shakir And the servants of the Beneficent Allah are they who walk on the earth in humbleness, and when the ignorant address them, they say: Peace.

    Sarwar (Among) the servants of the Beneficent God are those who walk gently on the earth and when addressed by the ignorant ones, their only response is, “Peace be with you.”

    Khalifa The worshipers of the Most Gracious are those who tread the earth gently, and when the ignorant speak to them, they only utter peace

    Hilali/Khan And the slaves of the Most Beneficent (Allah) are those who walk on the earth in humility and sedateness, and when the foolish address them (with bad words) they reply back with mild words of gentleness.

    H/K/Saheeh And the servants of the Most Merciful are those who walk upon the earth easily, and when the ignorant address them [harshly], they say [words of] peace,

    Malik True servants of the Compassionate (Allah) are those who walk on the earth in humility and when the ignorant people address them, they say: “Peace;”[63]

    QXP The true servants of the Beneficent are those who: Walk upon the earth humbly. And when the ignorant ones address them, they say, “Peace!” (3:138), (22:41), (31:17-18).

    Maulana Ali And the servants of the Beneficent are they who walk on the earth in humility, and when the ignorant address them, they say, Peace!

    Free Minds And the servants of the Almighty who walk on the Earth in humility and if the ignorant speak to them, they Say: “Peace.”

    Qaribullah The worshipers of the Merciful are those who walk humbly on the earth, and when the ignorant address them say: ‘Peace, ‘

    George Sale The servants of the Merciful are those who walk meekly on the earth, and, when the ignorant speak unto them, answer, peace:

    JM Rodwell And the servants of the God of Mercy are they who walk upon the Earth softly; and when the ignorant address them, they reply, “Peace!”

    Asad For, [true] servants of the Most Gracious are [only] they who walk gently on earth, and who, whenever the foolish address them, [Sc., “with the aim to ridicule them or to argue against their beliefs”.] reply with [words of] peace;

  22. Majid says:

    Good article, but it will look more reliable if you add the ayat no. in them or the name of Hadees .

  23. Beatriz says:

    Hi, I have a question. As a non muslim woman which is the most polite and kind greeting to muslim men and women?

  24. fsyed says:

    Asak,

    I am from India and from a Hindu dominated area. Hence we have good number of non-muslim friends.
    On Eid, we invite them to greet and eat sweets and that is also a platform for us to show that we muslims like any other human being celebrate and enjoy our festivals. We like to share our happiness with others and it also helps pass on many such positive messages.

    Now, what happens is they also invite us on their festivals and we dont feel comfortable with that. Visiting them means greeting them for their festival, taking their God’s offering (some sweet) etc. The offering thing can still be avoided but we cannot totally boycott their invitation. We cannot always give them excuses for not coming. Some of them being very close friends, we really dont know how to respond to such situations instead of being awkward everytime their festival comes.

    Please suggest how do we respond on such occasions .

    JAK

  25. Karim says:

    My question is this.

    How do you know if someone is a Muslim or not if they give you Salaam and you never met them before?

    I am a Muslim and because I am white with red hair I often get ignored when I give Salaam.

    The Quran says this “When you are greeted with a greeting, greet in return with what is better than it, or (at least) return it equally.” (An-Nisa’: 86)

    Why do some scholars think this does not apply? How do you really know if the other person is Muslim or not?

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