Watch Over Your Heart


On Arrogance & the Student of Sacred Knowledge 

Purifying one’s heart is a critically important matter for all believers, as the Qur’an and teachings of our Prophet ﷺ (peace be upon him) emphasize, but for one traveling the path of sacred knowledge it is an even more crucial endeavor.  This is because the state of one’s heart has a very real effect on how one perceives knowledge and how it manifests in one’s deeds.  When one’s heart is sound, knowledge can be absorbed and understood properly and enlighten and illuminate one’s inner state.  It then has a positive and meaningful effect on one’s intellect and limbs, such that it can bring benefit to oneself and others.  This is perhaps one of the reasons why everything on earth—even the ants in their hills and the fish in the sea—prays for the religious scholar, as a prophetic tradition teaches1 .  The benefit of their knowledge has far-reaching effects and touches them all.

On the other hand, when one’s heart is not sound and is plagued by spiritual ailments, the knowledge one attains can actually bring about serious harm.  It can become an obstacle that blocks and impedes one’s path to Allah subhanahu wa ta`ala (exalted is He) in various ways, and can hurt others if that knowledge is misinterpreted, misapplied or misused.  These abuses of knowledge are often done on an unconscious level, the spiritual causes of which—related to the heart—are often overlooked.

The spiritual heart has been likened to a mirror.  If a mirror has not been polished and contains certain blemishes and distortions, it will reflect objects in a faulty and distorted way.  The reflection will be in accordance to the state of the mirror, and not the reality of the object itself.  In the same way, spiritual ailments and contaminants that plague and darken the heart, disconnecting it from Allah (swt) and occupying it with negative characteristics, can mar and distort one’s perceptions of knowledge and one’s ability to distinguish between truth and falsehood, good and bad, and beauty and ugliness.

It is for this reason that one must couple one’s devotion to the Islamic sciences with a deep commitment to the spiritual purification and nourishment of one’s heart.  Imam Nawawi advised, “Purify your hearts (for knowledge) the way land is purified for cultivation.”  And the great scholar and tabi`i (follower) Uways al-Qarni said succinctly, “Keep watch over your heart.” (“Alayka bi qalbik.”)

On Arrogance & Pride

One of the most common spiritual ailments of the student of sacred knowledge is arrogance and blameworthy pride.  Such pride does not necessarily consist of dressing or acting in a dignified manner, but as a tradition of the Prophet ﷺ   teaches, it is “to reject the truth and to have contempt for people.”2

One may wonder how a student of sacred knowledge—who has dedicated him or herself to understanding and learning the truth—could reject or disdain that truth.  Such a distaste or dislike may come to one’s heart when the truth contradicts one’s own understanding or one’s deeds.  It is at the moment when we are confronted with our own errors, failings or missteps that we may feel a hostility or resentment towards truth.  We may dislike being corrected, or turn a blind eye to the soundness of another opinion in order to defend our own position or that of the group to which we ascribe.  Confident in our own understanding, beliefs or actions, we may work to manipulate or alter the truth to suit our own interests and desires, instead of seeking to submit to and accept it.

If one feels anger or resentment when one is corrected or shown the truth of another opinion, this is a sign of blameworthy pride.  If one feels an inner resistance to accepting the truth at the expense of one’s own ego, reputation, or image, this is a sure sign of misplaced priorities and a prideful heart.  One should remind oneself of the serious danger of pride—an atom’s weight of which will bar one from Paradise, as we learn from a prophetic tradition3 —and about which Allah (swt) says in a sobering warning in the Qur’an, “I will turn away from My signs those who are arrogant upon the earth without right.” (7:146)

If one is unable to accept criticism or advice from others, or is overly sensitive to the way one is given advice, this too is a sign of pride that needs to be remedied.  One’s focus should be on one’s own self and not on the one correcting and advising.  One should actually feel relief and happiness when shown one’s mistakes and given the opportunity to rectify them.  Imam Al-Ghazali likened a companion who points out one’s mistakes to kibreet al-ahmar, a very rare natural material, while the noble companion `Umar said, “May Allah have mercy on the one who gives me the gift of showing me my defects and weaknesses!”

The second element of arrogance the Prophet ﷺ mentioned is having contempt for others.  A student dedicated to the study of the sacred sciences and who is often immersed in high-level discourse and ideas may begin to feel a sense of superiority over others, and consider them and their concerns lowly, unimportant or irrelevant.  One may also feel a sense of self-righteousness when considering others who are sinful or evidently heedless of religious practice.  The fact that one may be shown a level of respect and deference due to one’s knowledge may also feed into this feeling of being better than others.

One of the biggest pitfalls arrogance causes a student of knowledge to fall into is a feeling of entitlement.  One may begin to see their knowledge or accumulation of good deeds as a result of their own abilities, and as a guarantee to Paradise, an immediate access to gnosis of Allah Most High, or a legitimate license for contempt and disdain of others.  This folly is what a person of wisdom alluded to in their statement that sometimes “the thickest veils between man and Allah are the wise man’s wisdom, the worshiper’s worship, and the devotion of the devout.”4

The great 18th century scholar Uthman dan Fodio stated that self-recognition is one of the most important keys to curing arrogance.  One should contemplate on the fact that one came into being from non-existence—a state of complete insignificance, ‘a thing unremembered’—and was then created from something base and lowly (earth) and then a thing unclean (a drop of sperm).  This is our origin, until Allah (swt) granted us faculties and senses, and brought us from a state of death to life, incapacity to capacity, and from ignorance into awareness and knowledge.  Allah (swt) says in the Qur’an,

“And Allah has extracted you from the wombs of your mothers not knowing a thing, and He made for you hearing and vision and intellect, that perhaps you would be grateful.” (16:78)

One must remember that any good deed one has been able to perform, any knowledge one has been able to attain, is from the grace and tawfeeq (facilitation) of Allah (swt) alone and not from our own selves.  Deep consideration of our humble origins and the reality of the Source of our knowledge can help us overcome our arrogance.

In this spirit of self-realization, one should also call to mind one’s sins and realize that one holds an honorable position among people only because Allah (swt), from His compassion, has concealed one’s sins and misdeeds.  Being able to deliver a heart-moving lecture, masterfully quote prophetic narrations or recite Qur’an in a beautiful voice may inspire the admiration of people, but it is Allah (swt) who knows whether one’s own heart has actually been moved, whether one abides by those narrations in solitude and if those sacred words have gone ‘past the throat’ and have had a meaningful effect on one’s limbs.  There is no place for arrogance or pretences when one considers their true state before Allah (swt), and contemplates deeply on the bare and exposed state one will find themselves in on the Day of Judgment.

One must further realize that it is not knowledge in and of itself that grants a person a high rank with Allah (swt), but deeds that are pleasing to Him both in their outward form and their inner reality.  Namely, it is the sincerity and mindfulness with which an act is done that can make ‘a small deed great and a great deed small.’  We should therefore be wary of underestimating the deeds of others and exaggerating our own self-worth.  In addition, we do not know people’s ends, and it may very well be that one who is now a sinner will develop a deep sense of remorse and impoverishment before Allah (swt), and die in a state of sincere repentance, while one seemingly headed for Paradise will misstep and end up far distant from Him.

Hassan al-Basri used to say, “I will not leave a room until I feel I’m the worst person in it.”   We too should make this our attitude and mindset when we deal with others, and remember often our true state.

Finally, an important way of counterbalancing pride in one’s heart is to lower oneself to the very people one feels arrogance over, and to seek out tasks which help break one’s ego and increase one in humbleness and humility.

Some examples of such deeds could be:

  • Initiating the greeting of salaam (peace), especially when one feels that they should be greeted first.
  • Giving gifts and supplicating for those who point out one’s defects and faults.
  • Being generous with one’s knowledge and teaching others, even in subjects that seem simplistic or below one’s level.  Once, a scholar of great learning passed away and was seen in a dream by one of his students radiant and happy, wearing the garments of Paradise.  The student asked him, “What deed raised your rank in Paradise?  Was it your mastery of a particular science or understanding of a certain high-level principle?” He responded, “I used to go to the village and sit with some elderly illiterate women and teach them al-Fatiha.  It was this deed that raised my rank in God’s sight.”
  • Physically serving others, especially the elderly and the poor, in tasks that are humbling to one’s ego.  Some examples could be bending down to give someone their shoes, cleaning a public or shared area for which one is not usually responsible, cooking and serving a meal to another, helping an elderly person wash or change their clothing, or any other deed to which the ego may feel an aversion.
  • One notable shaykh (scholar), who would often sit with many powerful and influential people, was absent from his class one day and his students found him cleaning the bathrooms of the masjid.  He told them, “This is so that my ego remembers who it is.”
  • Seeking to be in a state of Allah’s remembrance constantly, and supplicating frequently for His refuge and protection from arrogance and other spiritual ailments.
  • Spending time in honest introspection and contemplation on one’s inner state, thoughts, and deeds, and consciously renewing one’s intentions.  Imam al-Jurjani said, “Intentions are a spring the well of which is sidq (a state of truthfulness and candor between oneself and Allah, free of artifice and self-delusion) and only from it does sincerity emerge.”

Conclusion

The great scholar and jurist Imam Shafi’i said, “None of you will seek this knowledge with a domineering attitude and exaggerated self worth and succeed. However, one who seeks this knowledge, struggles with his/her soul, [enduring] strained provision and [struggles in the] service to the scholars is successful.”5

We ask Allah (swt), the Controller of hearts, to help us be in His constant remembrance and to uproot arrogance, pride, and other spiritual ailments from our hearts.  O Allah, do not let us be of those who are turned away from Your signs due to our arrogance.  O Allah, make any increase in knowledge we attain a means for us to draw closer to You and refine our character and our hearts.  O Allah, let us be of those who come to You on the Day of Judgment—the Day when neither wealth nor children will avail us—with sound, pure and enlivened hearts.  Ameen.

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  1. Tirmidhi []
  2. Sahih Muslim []
  3. Sahih Muslim []
  4. A statement attributed to Bayazid al-Bistami []
  5. This and several other quotes from this article have been taken from various classes with Imam Suhaib Webb, and from an excellent article of his that can be found here. []

15 Comments

  1. Ramadan says:

    jazakallahu khayr

  2. Muslema says:

    really really nice masha Allah. Baraka Allahu Feekee wa fee qalamukee :)

  3. Khajija says:

    Ameen Ya Rabbi Ya Rabbanna!!!

  4. Aziza says:

    This article came right on time for me! Jazaki Allah kol khayr :)

  5. Hayaah says:

    Ameen!

    This was a beautiful piece…

    Can I please ask my brethren in Islam to pray for my father and my family… for Allah to soften my father’s heart, remove pride from his soul and grant sabr to my family during testing times, insha’Allah?

    JazakAllah khayr!

  6. Qamar says:

    Assalamualaikum, Jazaki Allahu Khieran for sharing this beautiful reminder and giving us the practical examples to beautify our hearts. May Allah increases your knowledge of Him SWT and allow us to benefit from it. Ameen!

  7. jannah says:

    JazakiAllah khair for the article. In these days of activism we really need to make sure we are keeping the balance of keeping our hearts cleansed.

  8. Yasmin says:

    Maahallah, simply beautiful!

  9. Zairul Nizam says:

    Salaams,

    A very good and timely piece indeed. In Malaysia currently, there appears to be a contest of sorts – between religious teachers (perpetuated and aggravated by their respective followers). It has sometimes degenerated into insults and name-calling; even to the point of labeling one or the other deviant, dajjal, kufr, and worse of all, chief satan! As a novice student, it is all very perplexing. I’m sure this happens elsewhere as well but I don’t know the extent of it. What is your view on this and what is your advice to a humble student like myself? Jazakallah bi Khair

  10. Imran says:

    Imran,

    Alhamdulillah for the great posted we need reminders like this all the time not only for the person seeking sacred knowledge but also for common people…

    I see their are some signs given recognizing uncleaned hearts and few steps dealing with pride and arrogance but it will be extremely helpful if their more post about “how to cleanse one’s heart?” and practical steps purifying one’s heart from a person wakes up til the person sleeps rather than merely clarifying a problem because most of can justify our hearts are always in need for spiritual nurturing.

    Allah swt knows best and again May Allah swt reward you for your effort..

  11. Jazakallah Khair and Ameen to your dua. Beautiful post mashallah.

  12. Omar says:

    This is an awesome article mashallah! Thank you!

  13. y.k. says:

    Such a beautiful read. Jazak Allahu Khayron.

  14. Rafia says:

    Jazak’Allah khair for writing this and Alhamdulillah that I was directed to this today. Insh’Allah I will keep this is mind in the future. It is just what I needed. The reminders to be humble are signs and I am so grateful for them. Sacrificing the ego needs to be done if we want to please Allah (swt) and thus have a blissful life in this world and the next. Any greatness we may achieve in this world is because is Great eternally.

  15. Syed says:

    May Allah SWT reward you. Jazakallhukhairan. :)Do remember us in your prayers :)

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